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You need to determine how much he is masturbating when you aren't
around. If you find a lot of porn on your credit card or on his
computer, that is the problem. What he is doing is saving up all of
his energy for porn. This is fairly common. I wouldn't be too upset
unless he is looking at gay midgets. A lot of times when a
relationship goes stale, men turn to porn. Maybe you haven't been
turning him on like you used to.
Here is the solution.
While he is away, look at some of the porn he is watching. See
what is turning him on. Maybe he is into something kinky that you
never knew before. Go out and buy some lingerie. Surprise him one
night by doing what he sees in the porn movies. Maybe we is into anal
and you never tried that. If that is the case, he will orgasm in no
time to your never touched before ass. Make sure that you are playing
on what he likes to see. If he likes seeing women with sex toys, let
him watch you masturbate. I'm sure that you would agree that you would
rather him watch you, then watch some other woman. Maybe you are
nagging him too much. When you nag the hell out of him, it probably
reminds him of his mom. If you are nagging him about everything under
the sun, then there is a problem.
The solution:
Shut the fuck up. Sorry to be so rude, but that is how us men
think. He get tired of all the bitching and moaning. If you don't like
us, leave. Don't make our lives hell. Even if he doesn't wipe his
shoes before he comes in the house every day, bitching won't get it
done. Maybe work has got him down. Is he working a ton of hours? If
so, then that is the problem. He is probably stressed out and too
tired to have sex. Yes, even men have reasons why they don't want to
have sex.
Solution:
Tell him to work less. Having everything brand new isn't that big
of a deal. If it is, get a part time job yourself. Don't run your man
into the grave over money. Something bad has happened. Maybe he had a
death in the family or had some recent emotional trigger. You women
love that word emotional trigger. Something might be making him feel
this way. If someone recently died, I would ask why are you pressuring
him to perform? He probably doesn't even want to have sex. If your
main concern is to get laid, you are being selfish. You are sounding
like a man.
Solution:
Allow him to get his life straightened out. Don't force him back
into sex. If he did this to you, you would be upset. Allow him time to
get over whatever is at hand. If he doesn't, you need to suggest that
he gets help. You might have to tell him that if he doesn't get any
help that you will leave him. Hey, it sounds bad, but you don't want
to spend the rest of your life with a basket case. Diet. Yes, this can
affect if a person has an orgasm. Too much caffeine can delay an
orgasm. If have went through periods where I drank too much coffee and
thought I would never orgasm.
Solution:
Get him off the Java. A cup in the morning isn't going to hurt. A
cup in the evening for pep is also okay. But if he is chugging it down
like he is at an AA meeting, he has a problem. Too much alcohol can go
this too. If he is always drunk as a skunk, you already know what the
problem is. If he is drinking more than you can count each day, he has
a drinking problem. I would tell him to get some help or to move on
out. You don't need to be with a drunk.
As you can see ladies, there are a lot
of reasons why your man can't orgasm. You need to talk to him about it
and let him know that you care. If it happens all the time, then you
need to take it seriously. If it only happens every now and then, no
need to worry. This happens to most of us men from time to time.
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